美國媽媽自拍「無覺好瞓」過程 百萬網民讚好:育兒太辛苦!

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為了照顧小朋友,不少父母常常睡眠不足,美國洛杉磯一名媽媽日前自拍睡眠的情況,其間見她不時被10個月大的兒子擊打、扯頭髮,又要醒來照顧另一個失眠的女兒,把她抱來同睡後,再將她抱回房間,經過一番折騰,媽媽的睡眠時間已所剩無幾。片段在網上引起不少父母共鳴,短短6日已經吸引140萬次觀看,很多人直指「育兒太辛苦了!」

達奈爾晚上10點前就已經上床準備休息。(IG「fitmomma4three」圖片)

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拍攝片段的是美國媽媽達奈爾(Melanie Darnell),她育有3個孩子,除了照顧孩子,平日也會在網上分享育兒經和素食資訊。日前,由於丈夫外出工作,留下她和3個孩子在家,於是她在睡前架了相機,拍攝她和孩子睡覺的情況,真實地呈現她每晚「無覺好瞓」的苦況。

達奈爾育有3個孩子,除了照顧孩子,平日也會在網上分享育兒經和素食資訊。(IG「fitmomma4three」圖片)

片段可見,達奈爾晚上10點前就已經上床準備休息,但3個孩子仍然精力旺盛,未有上床,直至11時半,達奈爾才把10個月大的小兒子Sage抱上床,但Sage似乎仍有用不盡的精力,不斷輾轉反側,一時捶打和腳踢媽媽,一時又爬起來不肯安睡。

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凌晨1時左右,二妹妹Milo又吵起來,並走到達奈爾的房間,要和媽媽同睡,就這樣3個人一同睡了起來,約半小時後,達奈爾把Milo抱回房間,好不容易才到了早上6點起床,這段短短的睡眠時間還包括了小孩郁動、哭鬧、扯頭髮等等,能真正入睡的時間可以說是幾乎沒有。

達奈爾在IG分享了這段影片,她指「就算太陽下山,育兒不會因此結束。」育兒雖然辛苦,但她亦樂在其中,享受和寶寶同睡的時光。短短上載6日已經獲逾140萬次觀看,不少人讚嘆「母親是超級英雄」、「育兒太辛苦了!」,亦有父母表示很有共鳴,「每個人都一樣」。

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Parenting doesn’t end when the sun goes down. 🌙 I want to parent at night the same way I parent during the day. You have two nighttime parenting goals (1) get sufficient rest yourself and (2) meet the nutritional and emotional needs of your child. It’s a tough balance. Realizing that the last sweet hours of restful darkness are almost over. The 4am wake-up call is especially excruciating. Still, we haul ourselves out of bed, and with bleary eyes pull our babies in close . In those quiet, dark hours, the lack of distraction can actually quite calming and refreshing.  Baby’s needs tend to be simple: to be held and fed 🤱🏻. Mothers are experts at both of those things, and the ability to so completely meet the needs of our amazing baby is profoundly satisfying. During these moments let’s think of all of the other parents that are up with their babies at the very same middle-of-the night moment and take comfort in the thought of each of us cradling our babies in the dark of our homes, together in shared experience. Rather than feeling isolated and exhausted, we can feel connected to the other tired mothers that are also awake #momsunited. . So, to all of the tired mothers out there, breathe in and breathe out. These days are intense but short lived. Both you and baby will be sleeping more soundly before long. For now, cuddle your babies, nurse them and love them no matter what time the clock says. The baby you rock tonight someday may have the opportunity to be gazing at the stars while holding a sweet baby of her own. She will be thinking of, and appreciating, you ❤️. . Full video www.youtube.com/fitmomma #attachmentparenting #caughtoncamera #parenting #momlife #nighttimeparenting #gentleparenting #tiredmom #momof3 #onshrooms #cosleeping #foursigmatic @nest @todayshow @scarymommy @goodmorningamerica @theellenshow @ellentube @theviewabc @huffpostparents @popsugar #ellen15

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